There’s an old saying in New York that goes, “Only tourists look up.” I think it’s meant to be a condescending comment that knickerbockers use to poke fun at visitors and hapless rubes who aren’t in the know, gawking at the spectacle of the city. When I think about this saying I question its sentiment and bitter callousness because I interpret it to mean something almost totally the opposite of its intended purpose, something that in my mind is more troubling than the undiscriminating contempt and mockery of outsiders — That if you live anywhere, or do anything long enough, you stop taking the time to see the world around you.
To me this is tragic, because seeing and observing is vital, it is the most immediate and visceral way that I connect to my surroundings and my life. It’s not just literally seeing, it’s an attitude and a world view. It’s about recognizing and enjoying the simple things in life — real life — the life that is actually around you, and that you are actually a part of. Having the ability to be genuinely engaged, and having the capacity to remain constantly curious within the patterns of your every day life.
In today’s modern world, with a constant influx of information and visual stimulation it’s becoming harder and harder to have the patience to observe. We are being subjected to a never ending onslaught of media, noise and jargon. Ipods, blackberries, computers, and omnipresent televisions make it more difficult to spend time with our own thoughts and feel actually connected to our surroundings. All of these things are distractions, and they’ve become such a part of our life that it’s easy to feel like if they are not there, there is nothing to see or do. We become bored. We’ve become conditioned to be stimulated by external sources, fed information, and constantly entertained as opposed to being curious and seeking out, finding, seeing and experiencing.
We are no longer hunters and gatherers, we are consumers, and consumption is passive.
To me, being bored means you’re not paying close enough attention, and that you’re not actively engaging with your surroundings. Granted, sometimes things can be boring … like Vin Diesel, but even in the barren wasteland that is Vin Diesel, with a laser like focus, there is joy to be found. When people stop paying attention accidents happen; cars crash, fingers get cut off, terrible leaders are elected, Vin Diesel makes movies, and things can slide out of control.
This blog is an effort on my behalf to be more engaged with my life, and to give myself a venue for passing thoughts and observations without needing a larger context in which to connect them. The only constant thread or theme to any of this is that I’ve seen something, thought it was interesting, and taking that observation and trying to communicate it to others, is fun. Even just having this blog as an outlet is a good excuse to pay attention to things in a different way, for a different reason. I hope I can keep it up.
Complacency —> Boredom —> Apathy —> DANGER!
Observation —> Curiosity —> Discovery —> EXCITEMENT!
by Nate Manny in Ethos, Life, Looking Up